Breakup Music Playlist

Music as a self-care practice!

Music is an important part of our lives, isn’t it?  There are certain songs that take us back to a specific time of our lives, like our teen years, or an event, like our wedding day.  My ex-brother and sister in-law got married to the Beatles song, “Will You Still Love Me When I’m 64?”  They’re still together.

I should have known where my marriage was headed when my husband asked the mariachis to serenade us with, “El Asesino, which, in Spanish, means The Murderer (in case you were wondering).   Oh, that should have been a red flag that I was creating my break up music playlist.  And today it makes sense that one of my favorite songs to listen to several years into our marriage was Willie Nelson’s Country & Western hit, “You Picked a Fine Time to Leave Me, Lucille.”  I hadn’t been happy for a long time.

Music connects the head and heart!

After I left my marriage, I listened to a lot of music that was heart-opening, like “Ra Ma Da Sa” by Snatam Kaur.  I was very intentional listening as I engaged in my Kundalini yoga practice.  And then I listened incessantly to Michael Franti.  I resonated with songs like “Hey World (Don’t give Up), ” because I felt like my world was a war zone.  It gave me hope and I felt like I was asking the Universe to not give up on me -personally!   Oh, and I learned to drum – it was like listening to my own heartbeat that I had lost touch with.

A few years later, my lover turned me onto Prog, and the musical bars were raised!  Listen to  Spock’s Beard’s masterpiece, “The Doorway.”

Isn’t it beautiful?  Listening to this can you see how relationships can serve as a catalyst for our evolution?  A doorway to knowing ourselves more deeply…

Music can be irreverent! But, that’s fun!

I love empowering music, and one of my most favorite singer/songwriters is Storm Large.  She’s not for everyone, but she tells it like it is and she says things the most of us would never dare speak out loud.  Like this inappropriate song called, “I Want You to Die!”  It is appropriate however for the angry hurt moments….


She’s a powerhouse who has lived through abuse, neglect, and depression.  I love her!  And have seen her in concert a couple times.  She has a wide range and is comfortable performing in jeans and a t-shirt or a fancy gown, like when she played  Carnegie Hall.  I personally think every woman should know Storm.  You can check out her racy music, I’ll just share a mild one here that is perfect for getting over someone.  Here’s Storms version of “Hopelessly Devoted To You.”

Let’s Co-Create a Playlist!

Now it’s your turn? Share your EMPOWERMENT music here!  What are some fabulous songs, artists, genre’s you listen to?  Let’s co-create a Breakup

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